Kids or No Kids. That is the question.

A question that can cause brides and grooms hours of painful debate over questions like: Do you invite family members to bring their kids? Do you allow only the kids that are in the wedding party, or kids of parents in the wedding party? What if you allow one of your friends to bring their kid and not your other friend? Not only is it tough to find a diplomatic way to address this situation, there is the added pressure of the financial impact of allowing everyone to bring their children. Think about it: 10, 20 or even more kids picking at their dinner, on your dime, at $175 (or more) per person(!). But not to worry, everything will be OK because Taste has your back. After lots of research in the best known etiquette books and some creative thinking, we have developed the following list of tips to help you avoid these Sticky Situations.

1. Make a decision and stick to it, No exceptions. If you choose to exclude children at your wedding, Emily Post says "It would be most unfriendly and in the poorest of taste to write "No children" on the invitations." Outside of your own children, "you must refrain from inviting one child under your age limit, or the hurt feelings will far outweigh the money saved". To get the word out, rely on your bridesmaids and family to politely spread the word.
2. Have a Kids Menu. If you decide to include children at your wedding, then come one, come all. Oftentimes kids don't want to eat what their parents are eating anyway. Taste will create a separate kids menu at a much lower price point. A Kid-friendly Menu might include: Chicken Fingers, Macaroni and Cheese, Baby Vegetables with Butter and a Chocolate Chip Cookie. When having a separate kids menu, we suggest serving kids over the age of 4 at a separate "Kids-Only" table; it is more fun for the kids (and for the parents). Kids 3 and under will most likely share a plate with mom or dad and you won't need to account for them in your guest count.

3. Ask for Help: Let someone else handle fielding these questions for you. Taste has an exclusive list of preferred wedding planners who are all seasoned professionals with hundreds of weddings under their belt and years of experience. They are experts in the wedding industry and skilled at negotiating the proverbial wedding "battlefield". They are armed with etiquette and an artillery of contacts and resources that ensure you make it to and through your wedding day looking like a Princess Bride rather than a Bridezilla!